Monday, November 28, 2011

beau•ty (byoo-ty) | laura from the blog of worldly delights

Every week, I introduce you to a blogger who has been kind enough to share their story about a feature they love now that once brought insecurities and how they learned to love it. Together, these women will help re-define beauty in their own words and will hopefully help others feel more comfortable in their own skin because each of you are beautiful - you should feel that way everyday!

Meet today's beauty Laura from The Blog of Worldly Delights

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1. What is your favorite feature that you didn't always love, but have learned to appreciate?  
It took me a long time, and sometimes I still struggle, but I've come to really appreciate my curves. I've never been a skinny girl, even though all my life I've always pined for a waifish figure. I was always jealous of my sisters who are sizes 0-2 because clothing seems to just drape off of them just as I imagine them when I see them on the rack. Growing up in Asia having my build/shape was hard. I was constantly teased because I was already 5 ft. tall when I was 8 and had already obviously hit puberty. That plus not being stick-thin fueled a lot of insults that stayed with me even though I'm pretty thick-skinned. I was also raised in a very conservative household/culture, and showing off one's figure is really frowned upon. So I wore a lot of baggy clothes to hide my shape. Now, I am more comfortable wearing clothing that shows it off and flatters it. 

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2. What made you learn to love it? 
My husband actually made me learn how to love my curves. This is gonna sound cheesy/ borderline-NSFW, but he calls me his Venus Naturalis. As opposed to the Venus Caelestis, who is more ethereal, the Venus Naturalis figure is earthy, sensual, and very curvy. Think of a figure perfect for child-bearing (though I'm not thinking about kids right now!)-- full, rounded, and soft. My husband has really helped me realize that my shape is perfect just the way it is. I can try to mold it as much as I want to, but if I don't love myself now, when else will I ever do?

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3. Any advice for other beautiful women out there who struggle with being comfortable in their own skin?  
I really believe that whatever insecurities women have with their bodies are purely mental. That said, it should be easy to change one's view on their bodies because all one has to do is change your mindset on it! I've been using this strategy shared by Bella (from One Sister's Rant), and it's really helped a lot! Every single day-- and especially at times when you don't feel so hot-- look at the mirror. Don't just glance. Don't just take a peek. Really LOOK at a mirror and tell yourself, "You are a beautiful woman." Do it as many times as you need until you feel the message has really sunk in. Once you know you're beautiful, you'll start acting more confident!  

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7 comments:

Andrea @ TheMFDre said...

Love this weekly post on your blog!

Rebecca said...

I think this is a great series!

just tututiny said...

My beautiful Laura! I am so glad to be able to learn more facts about her. Blogging is def. a hard job because we put ourselves out there for the world to see and there are bound to be insecurities that we are afraid to show but I am so proud of Laura for embracing it and sharing her beauty with us. Thanks Tabitha for these series!

Candy Apple Fashion said...

What a great idea! I will be checking back! Laura is so lovely :) - Dreama

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Talitha said...

Laura this is such a beautiful post!

Talitha xx
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SassyUptownChic said...

I subscribe to Laura and she is a total sweetheart. I love her and encourage others to follow her. She's great on Twitter too!
http://sassyuptownchic.blogspot.com/

Kirstin Marie said...

How fun!! I love Laura, she is amazing & always has such great style.